Acting “as if” has the power to make or break the future. When I believe the worst, I act “as if” the worst will happen. I set up the cycle. It’s about breaking patterns. When I do relationship consultation I am usually focusing on the patterns. Parents get into patterns of how they respond or rather react. […]
How do I decide what type action and or consequence is the next step… by the ability of the child to make a choice. If a child can make choices then s/he can also be held accountable for the choices they make. This may start with compliance to redirection. How do you know when the […]