Re Enforcers are the rewards and consequences that go with choices.    It’s the  fire and carrot theory.   Make  the right choice and get the carrot.. choose the wrong thing and get ……  “Youch!!”

It’s important to use the right re enforcer.   You and your child should know when consequences are fair or in line, reasonable.

Re enforcing is not bribing.  It’s helping our kids learn in small ways how life really works